What Part Does the Woman Play?

that's wtf I'm talking about!!!!

So, let's have a real adult conversation right now, because I'm puzzled by a few things. SEX (yes, I said it). It's a HUGE aspect of our everyday lives. I know I'm not the only person who thinks about it, has it, and sometimes even obsesses over it. But we're not really here to talk about me and my sex life. What I'm curious to know is why society has presented so many conflicting views for women. Everybody knows that when it comes to sex, the man is supposed to be masculine and dominant. But what about the women?? We're raised to be submissive to the strong, powerful man in the bedroom and then we get older and we're taught to never relinquish any kind of control to a man. From my experiences and listening to my friends talk, it can turn out to be a pretty confusing ordeal. We're divided on whether we should scream and express the amazing-ness we're experiencing (if we're lucky) or just shut up and let him do what he's doing; for fear of blowing his head up. Personally, I don't mind relinquishing control in the bedroom. There is no bigger turn on than a man with nice, big, healthy arms taking care of his business in a way that's most enjoyable for me. I am not against submission in the bedroom at all. However, I am not against taking control either. What's wrong with being the dominant one and making him bend to your will every now and then? I'm a firm believer in doing what makes you feel good; and I don't believe in lying when it comes to matters that are so serious (like sex). So here's what I suggest as a solution to the problem of the woman's role in the bedroom: Go for it how you want to go for it. If it feels good to you, let him know, if it doesn't, then stop. And whether you're a fan of that 1950s, come-home-and-throw-you-across-the-bed kind of ordeal or tying him up to the headboard and having your way, GET IT DONE. Stop letting society dictate how you enjoy yourself in private. As a good friend of mine once told me, "It's not about society all the time. sometimes its just what u wanna do. Society will deal with your decisions and life will go on."

Tata,

T